Making ANY humanoid-ncp able to Follow/Marry?

[Krehlmar]

So I know you can make friendly ncp's followers and marry you, not that hard. (there are alot of videos on this)

And I know you can make some hostile ncps (bandits etc.) eligible for marriage ( http://www youtube com/watch?v=Sj0h1e7I0wE )

But I've found an Ice Mage (female) that I really wan't to marry or just have as a follower, because she's damnable beautiful and wicked badass.

But I can't for the love of me make it work... any mod out there that solves this or is anyone an console wizard?

Current things I've tried:

resetai
addtofaction 0005a1a4 1
addtofaction 00019809 4
setrelationshiprank player 4
resurrect

tried with
addtofaction 0005C84D 3 instead aswell.

Any help would be amazing !
(Also I am currently married already so this might ruin marriage but I thought that if I can't get her to be a follower marriage is perhaps out of the question aswell. Not sure though.)

PS: Also if anyone knows how I can respawn her (to just keep her as a friendly AI in my house if nothing else works) could someone tell me?
Her "selected" code is 000427a9 but doesn't work in any combination with "player.placeatme 000427a9 1" etc

[bwross]

For Marriage:
*Try: Addtofaction 19809 1
*Still need to wear an Amulet of Mara.
*Still need to have the right disposition with them.

For Follower:
*Try: Addtofaction 5C84D 1
*Still need to have the right disposition with them.

For highest disposition:
*Try: player.setrelationshiprank player 4

If you have a follower I think you can do this:
*Try: set playerfollowercount 0

I'm not aware of a command to unmarry, but am not knowledgable fully on this.

[Krehlmar]

For Marriage:
*Try: Addtofaction 19809 1
*Still need to wear an Amulet of Mara.
*Still need to have the right disposition with them.

For Follower:
*Try: Addtofaction 5C84D 1
*Still need to have the right disposition with them.

For highest disposition:
*Try: player.setrelationshiprank player 4

If you have a follower I think you can do this:
*Try: set playerfollowercount 0

I'm not aware of a command to unmarry, but am not knowledgable fully on this.

I'll try that in a sec, but any idea how to respawn her? I have no idea how to do this yet.
Thanks alot for the help though! Will come back for results


EDIT: Also for those who do not know, the 000 in my codes do not matter so in a sense my codes are almost identical to yours.

[videogmer314]

To fully revive an NPC, you need to use "resurrect 1" instead of "resurrect".