Glad I'm not alone! *High fives*
Her place is probably with Debilla. The only working options for her is to collect the profits and prepare a meal. Once she's in my house, more options become available.
Orla was pretty much my ultimate spouse. I was searching for a female, who is at piece. I won't need her in combat. Priestesses were the best option. The Temple of Debilla were the only priestesses that were marryable, so I looked into those. Three women. One's face was too dark (not because of racism, but it looks like she's some necromancer). So I was left with two options, I tried both. One was sweet at first, but once we got married, she became more brutal. When asked to cook for me: "Here, and don't you dare ask me to make another before tomorrow!". I didn't like that, so I went with the kind, sweet Orla. She remained sweet after marriage.
Can you tell me a bit about Sylgja? Is she just as sweet, caring and beautiful as Orla? Can I swap her clothes to match Orla with 100 pickpocket?
I'm can either find a fix in the console with Orla, or use the console to unmarry Orla (which is probably harder than it sounds). I won't go back in time, it's too much.