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We just married, decided to move to Proudspire manor in Solitude, but she never showed up.

I teleported her to my manor, after waiting days for her. She cooked me a meal and immediately left the city.

I'm now following her. I suspect there is someone else.

EDIT: She goes back to Temple of Debilla, in which she lives. Is there a command to change her home?

Please?

honey, dibella dun got her whip't

Yay, glad I get to post this somewhere.

I too initially married Orla. She's glitched, someone on GameFAQS had the same problem, as did I. She refused to leave the Temple of Dibella, right? It's terrible. I hope they patch it, but she's going to stay in the temple. I also fail to understand the option of 'let's move in to your place'. I don't think that works, and she doesn't have her own house. I had to reload 2 levels and marry Sylgja. She's a good alternative if you like Orla, as is Muiri in Markarth.

Glad I'm not alone! *High fives*

Her place is probably with Debilla. The only working options for her is to collect the profits and prepare a meal. Once she's in my house, more options become available.

Orla was pretty much my ultimate spouse. I was searching for a female, who is at piece. I won't need her in combat. Priestesses were the best option. The Temple of Debilla were the only priestesses that were marryable, so I looked into those. Three women. One's face was too dark (not because of racism, but it looks like she's some necromancer). So I was left with two options, I tried both. One was sweet at first, but once we got married, she became more brutal. When asked to cook for me: "Here, and don't you dare ask me to make another before tomorrow!". I didn't like that, so I went with the kind, sweet Orla. She remained sweet after marriage.

Can you tell me a bit about Sylgja? Is she just as sweet, caring and beautiful as Orla? Can I swap her clothes to match Orla with 100 pickpocket?

I'm can either find a fix in the console with Orla, or use the console to unmarry Orla (which is probably harder than it sounds). I won't go back in time, it's too much.